Dating with horses why dating is haram in islam


22-Jun-2018 16:37

I let her come to me, and that’s one of the things I am very adamant about: I never use a halter or any kind of restraint.

So, she chooses to come with me, and I leave her food and she puts her head on my chest and we snuggle and I whisper sweet nothings in her ear and rub her cheeks — what she likes. She really loves the area between the back of her legs touched.

Early on, an experienced zoophile friend took me under his wing and taught me something I’ll always remember: A horse is going to give you his butt before he will ever give you his head. You know, it’s amazing — I don’t know if I have this innate thing or something, but only one horse has ever tried to kick me and that was while I was picking out her hooves, never during sex.

Horses might bite people who come into their space, but maybe that’s because a lot of them are just used to people coming into the stall, putting on a bridle, taking them for a three-hour run, and putting them back.

There are some people whom I would never want to associate with because they are not good people, but there are bad people in life in general. We are a varied community: city folk, country folk. When I first gave a horse oral sex I was in my early 20s, and one of the things I had to overcome was the thought that it’s disgusting to go down on a horse, much like the way some men feel about women. I picked her up for 0 because she was going on a meat truck. I’ve never had a relationship with a horse that was as in-depth as the one I have with her.

The popular image of that person on the farm who goes and abuses animals because there’s no other outlet, that’s not the case. So it was at the back of my head at the time, and it’s kind of strange because there’s nothing about horses that’s disgusting to me. I much enjoy her company; it’s really not just about sex.

I remember everyone was trying to console me, and I left the house and went out to the pasture and just screamed. My wife is the one who encouraged me to go and buy some horses. It’s never been a secret or, like, something I surprised her with or made her feel like she had to agree to or we were going to break up.

After consulting with her mentors, experts, and other sources, she told me that she felt I didn't need treatment for my attraction. You associated the trauma of your first love dying with your homosexual experience? When I heard the news I was in upstate New York with some friends. So I would say I’m in a polygamous relationship, or at least an open relationship.In 2002 the sex therapist Hani Miletski published Understanding Bestiality and Zoophilia, a book based on her study of almost 100 zoophiles — research that led her to conclude that many form deep, loving, and very nurturing relationships with their animal partners.While it’s certainly not a homogeneous community, many “zoos” (as they are known to self-identify) are monogamous and live with their animals as if they were human partners.Each time I have a conversation about this I see other people’s darkness projected onto what I do.

Yes, anyone could tie up a horse to make sure it couldn’t hurt you and then do whatever they want to it. But I’ve met maybe 150 to 200 zoophiles, and I’ve never seen that.

I wasn’t going to go broadcast what I was doing, but I also wasn’t thinking to hide.