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Instead your partner needs to know that you support him/her and needs to be able to do his job correctly – which is not possible if you keep obsessing about his/her safety and call him/her up twenty times a day.Be independent Since you cannot depend upon your partner to give you company on all evenings, you need to be responsible for your own socializing.This together with the fact that guns, knives and bombs are some of the most common things they handle everyday is enough to make any other professional go white with fear.And yet if you seriously want to date a cop, you have to develop a tough skin.Law enforcement is one of the most difficult jobs around – it requires both physical grit and mental strength not only on the part of the professional but also his/her loved ones.And this is why being in a relationship with cops involves something more than fun and romance.Even though they work in shifts, during an emergency or a special situation, be prepared to have your copper boy/girlfriend called in to the precinct.Also on occasions like Christmas, Thanksgiving and Fourth of July which couples usually spend together, it may not be possible for your partner to be with you.
Learn to give your partner space On those occasions when your partner is off-duty, you may be tempted to bond with him/her through conversation.So avoid asking a lot of questions which he/she may be uncomfortable answering.At the same time though let your partner know that you are there for them should they need your support for some reason. Police officers know which questions to ask — and listen carefully to the answers.
Police officers don’t shy away from confrontation; they deal with it. Your friends may tease you about handcuffs and strip searches — and you probably won’t mind. Your date will know both the hidden gems and places to avoid in the neighborhoods he/she is assigned to. To excel at the job, a police officer’s personal integrity is an important quality. Your date should be a good driver — and probably knows all the traffic laws (and loopholes) in the area. Your date is trying to make the world — or at least the neighborhood — a better place.
If you’re the independent sort, you’ll have plenty of that much-needed time to yourself.